“@TheComedySaying: GIRL: “Dad, I am lesbian.” SISTER: “Me too dad.” DAD: “Doesn’t anyone like guys here!?” SON: “I do.” DAD: -_-” haha now that’s messed up
Not giving any guidance.
Pleasing a woman is no easy task, so help out! Give explicit directions - when, where, how hard, how fast and more.
If you’re too embarrassed to cue verbally, find another way. For example, if you’re watching a sex scene in a movie, say something like “That’s a good move” or “That doesn’t do it for me.”
Or bookmark pages in a sex book and ask your love to read them. Or let out a moan when when they do something that pleases you.
Show some kind of sign of pleasure if you are being pleased. Some kind of guidance is important. It’s a win win situation, that can only benefit you both.
Just do it. Open up, share your life, your truths and your dreams then go. The support is un-breakable.
Time passes so slowly when you wait for her to talk to you. So slow. No matter how hard you try to place your mind elsewhere it ends up in the same place today.
1. Brushing Things Under the Rug Communication is key in any successful relationship, short or long term. It’s ok to drop little things; you have to pick your battles, after all. But when you ignore important things that bother you instead of discussing them with your partner, things are bound to come out later, after the tension has built up inside of you. This makes for a much messier and more emotional situation, while getting it out in the open early could have resulted in a calmer discussion.
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